Friday, January 30, 2009
Dirty Laundry
Thursday, January 29, 2009
I Love Rev Run
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Not exactly the landing we hoped for...
You know that feeling that your little one is up to something? You have no concrete evidence but you just know. I felt like I had eyes in the other room. Dalen was quiet for sometime. I peeked in to check on him and he was looking up. His eyebrows were scrunched together as if he were deep in thought. Hmmm, he was doing nothing wrong. I just couldn't shake the feeling though.
After about 30 minutes of silence I began to hear clanging. It sounded like someone was eating. I began to picture the room he was in. There was china on the table not too far from his play pin, but far enough away that it was beyond his reach. I tiptoe to the room only to find Dalen munching on an imaginary cuisine and occaisonly sipping from a glass coffee mug. He finally saw me standing there in shock. Grinning from ear to ear he continued devouring his "meal".
How in the world did he get out of that playpin!!!??? There was only one way to find out. I put him back in the playpin and watched for a while. He then climbed up on his tonka truck, threw his left leg over the side of the playpin and lunged up, out and DOOOOWWWWNNN!!!
Yea not exactly the landing we hoped for but I now know he is capable of getting out and how. Oh gosh, lets hope he doesn't try this in his crib one night when we are asleep. Our poor house would be demolished, trashed, in flames...it wouldn't survive! I have his crash landing on video for Mario but I felt it would be not very nice to put it on here. Minutes later Dalen was still eating his meal. Needless to say it was plate lickin good.
PS- Anyone know of any playpins sold with lids?? ha, ha I am kidding
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Preacher's wife
I guess it hit me while driving the other day I am officially a "preacher's wife". A little overwhelming because I personally I don't feel that I fit the traditional mold for that. Maybe thats a good thing?
When we interviewed for the position Mario has at Grace Community, I made one vow to the council: that we would be teachable. We are young and inexperienced, yet called for God's work. My prayer is always, "God teach us something today." Here is what I have learned so far as a preacher's wife.
1. The more you learn, the more you realize how much you DON'T know.
I think this is the 1st step towards humility. Pride is learning and thinking you know more instead of realizing there is still more to learn and more you don't know. Pride is definitely man's denial that he needs to learn more.
2. Ministry is NOT for the lazy.
With the societal issues we are facing, ministers and their wives must constantly be in prayer, led by the spirit and decrease their self in every move they make. The issues and questions that ministers are experiencing today are so unreal I don't think we could even begin to have answers for them. Direction in these areas must come from God.
When God has truly called you to do something, you will see to it that it is done (with or without the help of others). This means more labor, extra work hours and hard sacrifices.
3. Rewards aren't always instantaneous or visible.
If you think of jobs where a lot of labor and hands on are required, it always takes time to see results. For example, a gardener can spend months waiting on results from crops he planted...and sometimes he may never see results. The most important part of growing crops is tilling the ground and planting the seed.
Sometimes our job isn't to witness the outcome, our responsibility is prepare someone or something for the harvest. Preparation is the most grueling of that process.
4. You must be cautious of biased prayers.
God's word is clear that he will do exceedingly above what we could ask or think. So why do we limit what he does or how he does them? When God calls us we must be very cautious to be open to his will and pray for his will. Our selfish desires begin to pray for things we want or things we see, when really God intended things to be radically different.
He's got the whole world...
America's funniest videos
Sunday night America's Funniest Home Videos came on. I am not sure if Dalen heard the audience laughing and he was copying or if he really thought the videos were funny. A segment came on of just animals. Anything with feathers or fur is a "bow wow" to Dalen and he barks immediately. This is Dalen watching a funny dog clip.
Best Friends
When getting out of the car, we see John (Dalen's cousin and best friend) through the window. Dalen immediately runs to the window to see him closer and takes off to the door. When Dalen arrives at his class John runs to him and embraces him! So adorable!
I got in the car to drive to work and just thanked God for such a sweet friend. John is always so nice to Dalen, even when Dalen isn't so nice back. He comes from a great home with awesome parents who welcome Dalen over a lot.
God is already answering my prayers.
Monday, January 26, 2009
Welcome To Society:my eye-opening weekend
I think for the 1st time in my life I experienced culture shock. Although I haven't traveled too much I think culture shock must be what I was feeling. We normally catch matinees (b-c its cheaper and you have a better chance of having a theater to yourself, which is our favorite thing) but Friday, Premiere was swarming with preteen hormones, drama and clueless parents.
The 14 year old couple in front of us in the ticket line, were pairing up with their single parents who were also on a date. Literally Mario had to tell me to shut up I was gasping at their behavior so loudly. I just wanted to scream get your hormonal hands off of her! You are disgusting!
He would kiss her neck, she would giggle, then push him away and then he would smack her butt, IN FRONT OF HER MOM, who thought this behavior was humorous!!! Normally, I walk away from situations like that asking what is wrong with these kids but that night I walked away asking what is wrong with parents. On top of literally smelling an overflow of hormones in the air, I saw three girls get into a verbal altercation over an offensive text. Lets just say I hear a lot of 4 letter words.
And may I ask, what the deal is with 12 year old boys wearing skinny jeans for girls? I am sorry but the day I have and daughter who wants to date a boy who wears jeans more fitted than mine the answer is NO. I am all about fashion but guys, you can be fashionable without looking like us women. I must be old school but I personally think 12 is WAAAAY too young to be on an unsupervised date and to have a cell phone of your own! And for you moms that pull the "oh, my kids have a cell phone of their own in case something happens to them..." well, I think if you weren't constantly letting them run around the city with the freedom of an 18 year old you wouldn't worry about it so much b-c they would be with YOU!!!!
Sunday was the bridal show....very exciting. The most brides this show has ever had attended. THe booths were amazing and we made a lot of contacts including one I am still a little haunted by. I was approached by a young girl (prob. 20) who was covered in mood rings, snake rings, black hair and black eye liner an inch thick. She said her date was Halloween, her colors were "black, black, and more black", and she was having problems finding a wedding site because all of the places wouldn't approve her to have a ceremony in darkness. My, my, my the society we live in. What an eye opening weekend.
FULL SIZE!!!
Friday, January 23, 2009
Mr. Rogers
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
if, because or in spite of
This Is My Life
Yesterday was a pretty good day. Parent's Day Out was cancelled due to the treacherous and dangerous weather conditions (haha), work was steady but good and Dalen was in a fine mood. Dalen's latest trick is running behind the TV to unhook our TV antenna and Dvd player. The funny thing is I don't even know how to do this.
I guess my pride got in the way and while on the phone with my sister, Mel, I decided I would "try" to put the antenna back up to the TV b-c how dare a 1 year old know how to do something I don't. I rarely EVER have a fun one on one conversation with anyone because when Dalen is left to "play" unfortunate circumstances find themselves in the baby book and on my blog.
Distracted, I look up. I hear grunting and growling. Dalen is SWINGING from our curtain rod. No, I am not making this up. He is using his feet on our wall to gain leverage to climb higher. He got a rocking chair for Christmas that he is constantly standing in to see outside. First he would stand in the seat, then on the arm and then on the back of the chair. My only guess is he stood on the back of the chair and climbed onto our window ledge and climbed on the curtains from there.
Hesitant to say anything at all I make my way over to Dalen to get him down. A few steps before I do the curtain rod gives way. You know those scenes in movies where everything sounds like its drowning in the toilet and the producers play it in slow motion? Yea, that really happens folks. I always thought that was original but no. That was probably some mom's idea after a traumatic happening with their terrible toddler.
So I am watching as my curtains are falling and Dalen is slowly soaring south, head down. Unfortunately, his head met our window. Thankfully, he wasn't cut or decapitated but our poor window is ruined. Somehow in the midst of this Dalen landed on his butt.
He is then laying under the curtains. There is no movement, no sounds. Literally, I did not know what I was going to find under the curtains. I thought for sure he was knocked out, bleeding, in need of stitches. But no, not Dalen. I pull the curtains up to find him smiling with fishy faces.
If I have ever had a meltdown it was at that very moment. So Dalen went to his crib for a while, while I tried to salvage the curtain rod and window. I guess it needed a man's touch. It's now securely back on the wall (thanks to Mario) but our window will have to be replaced.
It took me a full day to muster up enough guts to tell my dad (we rent from him). If one of us girls would have damaged something from home out of pure rebellion...we would have been punished, yelled at, spanked and possibly grounded. But oh no according to my dad, "boys are supposed to climb." A new window should be underway by the end of this week. Wow, I wish I would have had that kind of grace growing up. Yep, grandparents are unbelievable.
A mom full of grace.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Cousins
Monday, January 19, 2009
King Day
Thursday, January 15, 2009
GREAT LAUNCH!
Thanks for all of your prayers and support. It has meant a lot and if you didn't get a chance to come out tonight visit us next week if you are in the area.
RIP Ba-Ba
For some reason, he has started waking up in the night a lot again and refusing nap time. Hmmm....didn't we already fight this battle? Needless to say, our dukes are up. I am trying to manage taking these battles one day at a time. I have SLOWLY but surely come to the realization that babies change SOOOO much SOOOOO quickly! Everyday its something new they have learned and its not always pleasant things. The most difficult part of this is just when I think we have adjusted to Dalen's newest phase, he begins a new one.
I wonder what tomorrow holds.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Mike Tyson Jr.
Sports Fanatic
Saturday night we took Dalen to a Lee basketball game. He really loves going to games. After watching this video you will see how much past his bedtime the game was. Poor guy just couldn't watch any longer. He feel asleep on his Pop and about 20 minutes later woke up out of his sleep clapping. It was hilarious.
Any Guesses...
on what Dalen's favorite word is? I'll give you a hint, it starts with an N and ends with an O. Just watch the video...there will be no doubt.
Peace. And. Quiet.
Yesterday, was certainly the most trying day of my life. Does anyone remember the old Step By Step epidsode where the Mom is reading the book What To Do When Your Baby Hates You?Unfortunately, I remember the episode quite vividly except for the part that says what to do! Of course, yesterday began with a fit because Dalen's precious daddy left. After arriving to work it was one fit after another. (These fits occur for no reason whatsoever.) While on the phone with Dalen's babysitter he decided to throw a fit and go tossing our table settings at the store. I hang up quickly and run after him. He then darts the front of the store and I follow. I fall pretty hard on my left wrist and just lay in the floor shocked for a second. I couldn't believe this just happened. (Luckily there wasn't anyone in front of our glass storefront.) Just as I look up Dalen is screaming with a huge glass vase in hand. I shout NO! and just as I do he chucks it as hard as his little arm can and it shatters everywhere. I put him in his playpin to clean the glass. He then proceeded to rip off the wall border while confined. Needless to say I am glad yesterday is over.
I am literally the ONLY individual Dalen does this to. He throws fits for no one but me (at least to this extent).
So needless to say today I am most thankful for peace and quiet. Something I have not had in a long, long time. Any suggestions on what to do with this behavior? Just for the record we spank, we scold, we ignore, we put Dalen in his playpen to timeout....none of this works.
Saturday, January 10, 2009
Our BIG Week
This morning was a staff meeting we had with everyone available to meet (a lot of students are not back in town yet from Christmas break). We got to know each other a little more and Mario shared about the core values of Arise. I know that God is going to do exceedingly, abundantly above all that we have asked or thought during our prayers for this ministry. I know that God is in the vision of this kingdom building ministry. I can imagine Heaven counting down the days for this service where the Holy Spirit will just invade us with a divine presence through free worship.
Please pray for us this week. We are believing for the beginning of a radical revival for this area.
I must say I am extremely proud of Mario for the bold stand he is taking. It is not easy being a leader to your peers. God is definately guiding him.
Oh and if you are in the area join us! Grace Community Church of God @ 7pm on Thursday.
PS- Mario informed I need to work on the spacing of my blog a little more. He says I never space my paragraphs good and it makes his eyes hurt. I hope this is better for all your hurting eyes :)
Thursday, January 8, 2009
You Have Now Entered...A Bottle Free Zone
Anyways. She told me to take the bottle cold turkey. Do it for 3 days and he will be adjusted. YEAH RIGHT! This is the 3rd day! I have been strong and not given in. Ba-ba, bottle or anything similar to these words are now profane and considered cussing. Dalen is not adjusting very well without his precious Ba-Ba.
Ode To Crawfish Pie (A special thanx to Hank Williams)
I am not sure if I laughed more at the lyrics of this old Hank Williams song or more at the fact that he tuned the radio there and chose to listen! The lyrics are hysterical; I have copied and pasted them below. Hopefully you may get just as big of a laugh as I did. Once the song ended Dalen laid back took a breath and began to whine dada....then the "real" fun began.
Hank Williams-On the Bayou
Good-bye Joe, me gotta go, me oh my oh Me gotta go pole the pirogue down the bayou My Yvonne, the sweetest one, me oh my oh Son of a gun, we’ll have big fun on the bayou
(Chorus) Jambalaya and a crawfish pie and file' gumbo 'Cause tonight I’m gonna see my ma cher amio Pick guitar, fill fruit jar and be gay-o Son of a gun, we’ll have big fun on the bayou Thibodeaux, Fontainenot, the place is buzzin’ Kinfolk come to see Yvonne by the dozen Dress in style and go hog wild, me oh my oh Son of a gun, we’ll have big fun on the bayou
(Chorus) Jambalaya and a crawfish pie and file' gumbo 'Cause tonight I’m gonna see my ma cher amio Pick guitar, fill fruit jar and be gay-o Son of a gun, we’ll have big fun on the bayou Settle down, far from town, get me a pirogue And I’ll catch all the fish in the bayou Swap my mon to buy Yvonne what she need-o Son of a gun, we’ll have big fun on the bayou (Chorus) Jambalaya and a crawfish pie and file' gumbo 'Cause tonight I’m gonna see my ma cher amio Pick guitar, fill fruit jar and be gay-o Son of a gun, we’ll have big fun on the bayou
Moms Nurturing Moms
One of the mom homeschools 9 children. They are all hers. Two of which are dislexic and one is down syndrome. WOW! Can we give her a golden trophy or something?! But I have some very strong doubts all of these children (who range from 1st grade to 11th grade) receive a proper education all in the same room. I mean is that possible?? She says it is.
The other mom has 5 children and another on the way. Her youngest is 20 months old. She did at one point state that her 20 month will lay where she is laid and sometimes her children hold the baby while learning. I personally feel this baby is being served an injustice. A baby should be a baby. It should enjoy baby things and I seriously doubt a baby enjoys being a classroom of 4 other siblings all day.
I have great respect for women who homeschool their children. I know it is not easy and agree with them both that to do a great job you must be called to do it. I am NOT. One other thought they had disturbed me too. They said life skills go a lot further than educational skills. I think while recieving a good education you in return develop life skills and as you develop life skills you become more educated. I do think life skills are important but whether you like it or not we live in a society where you need education. There are plenty of statistics to prove it. I think emphasizing one of these over the other is dangerous.
I can't help but to wonder...if these moms are with their children all day everyday when do they develop any type of independence or chance to live without mommy? Just a few thoughts that stirred...I do have a great respect for someone who has the patience to do this.
Monday, January 5, 2009
I can snore...just like grandpa
Dalen is now officially just like grandpa. He can now snore just like him. Watch his eyes.
So hilarious....you can tell his is using ever ounce of energy to focus on making a perfect snore.
I wish I was a little bit taller.
Dancing Generation
We know without a shadow of a doubt Dancing Generation is Dalen's favorite song. I mean seriously would you dare to disagree with that comment after seeing this video? From the first beat of the song to the last drumroll he is freaking out kicking his feet, clapping and headbanging. This was taken on our way to church on Sunday.
Twinkies
Here are my twinkies. Mario wanted this sweater for Christmas and we randomly found Dalen a matching one at the consignment store. They proudly wore them to church.